Your Complete Guide To Finding A Bae Before Valentine’s Day

February is here. Valentine is coming.

For most guys and ladies around, it a taboo to be single on Valentine’s Day.

If you’re here, we know you’re single. And we share in your pain of loneliness.

Here’s your complete guide to finding a bae before Valentine:

1. Lower your standards

John Dumelo or Berla Mundi is not going to show up before Valentine’s Day as bae. Please, lower your standards as you search.

2. Bring the guy/lady to you

It’s not going to work like magic. Just show some signs and bring bae to your doorstep with nice deeds and acts.

3. Step outside your comfort zone

Take risks and reap results.

4. Show you’re bae material

5. Don’t be afraid to fail

If you’re afraid to fail, you’ll probably be single forever

6. Be yourself

Now the bigger game is going to be on WhatsApp so here’s all you need to know on getting a bae before February the 14th.


7. Pick the guy or lady you want as bae for the texting game

8. Start conversations on WhatsApp. Don’t wait for the other party to


9. Reply game should be on fleek. No waiting time

10. Avoid the ‘k’ answers


11. Let the dp do the talking


12. Laugh even when it’s not funny

13. Unleash your mobile money skills because it’ll come up (for guys)


Marriage to these Types of People will Surely End in Divorce

Love, they say is blind but trust us, should you get married to any of these people, it is an eye opener and many at times, it is likely to end in divorce.

Gold Digger

Being married to such a person will only last as long as you’re able to provide for his or her insatiable needs but if the niceties stop flowing, he or she is gone, leaving you to lick your wounds.


Many people can contain this for a while but if there is no solution to the problem, the likelihood it will end in divorce is very high.



Any man or woman who abuse their partner is obviously getting them out as quick as possible


Drug Addict

Drug addiction is a very serious issue and marriages in this kind of situation can only last if both are addicted to drugs but if it’s just one party and the other is clean, the possibility of it ending in divorce is very high.



Any person who does not care about others and is only concerned about themselves will only end up alone because marriage is about sharing and so if everything is centered on you, the likelihood of the other person leaving is very high. Usually, marriages to such persons do not work.

Overly Jealous

It is normal for every person to be jealous, from now and then but if you’re the kind of person who is overly jealous to the extent it clouds your judgment and you end up hurting others or fighting every now and then, then you should be prepared to end up alone.


In marriage, if one is promiscuous, obviously the marriage is bound to fail because most people abhor it.


Usually, the onus falls on women. One thing about men is that they all have an ego, that is how they were created and so in marriage, you have a woman who wants to always control the man, it doesn’t last.


Respecting each other in a relationship is one of the foundations of a good marriage, but when disrespect is rife in a marriage, it is obviously going to end up in divorce.


LADIES: 5 Ways To Find A Good Husband

At the start of a marriage, the only thing many couples know is that they love each other dearly. Then later on, other things begin to follow as they keep to their for better or worse vow. For single ladies, it’s all about selecting the right man to spend the rest of your life with. Sometimes you may be with your partner but are still doubtful about him being your husband.

Compiled by Huffington Post, here are 8 ways to find a good husband

1. Look for a good man: An open and sympathetic man who doesn’t hold grudges is a good man.

2. Look for a good father: He can be everything you need but if he isn’t a good father, then you will have a big problem on your hands in future.

3. Look for a strong man: He’s tough in rough times and you can always lean on him for support

4. Look for a man with a sense of humor: He’ll always know how to snap you out of a bad mood or make jokes out of funny situations.

5. Look for a passionate man: A man who sees the brighter side of life and has numerous interests, music, food, you name them.


Shocking: Two People You Won’t Believe Are In Love

Do you know the real meaning of love?.. if you don’t, then this photo tells it all. Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.

That boy is hot, Melanin all the way…now I understand why they say if you go black you ain’t going back…whoever calls him a beast doesn’t know what beauty is…that color isn’t sold in the market,but products for becoming white is everywhere…get used to things money can’t buy and stop the self hate

You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. So we waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.

Some Common Misconceptions About Light Skinned Ladies

Here are some commonly held misconceptions about fair skinned women:

1. Bleaching: This tops the list because light-skinned ladies are mostly tagged with the word ”Bleaching” I know some of our ladies aren’t naturally fair, and there are ways one could identify them.

The knuckles and knee are good examples. In as much as we have high rate of bleachers, there are still the ones with the natural fair complexion.

Every complexion is beautiful be it light, dark or chocolate. Maintenance is all that matters.

2. Mermaid: This sounds funny, but true. Some people have the belief that light-skinned females are from the marine world.

Maybe this belief is derived from our Nollywood movies, whereby a light-skinned lady is allowed to play the character of a mermaid, while the dark-skinned one is given the role of a witch.

If you’re light-skinned and no one ever accused you of being a mermaid, then you’ve never been to Nigeria.

3. Flirts: A grown up lady is bound to come across admirers/suitors, but in this case, some people believe light-skinned ladies are flirts because of their flashy look and tend to have more admirers.

Also, they believe these ladies would surely accept the proposal of atleast 5 out of 10% of their admires, thereby making them a flirt.

4. Materialistic Nature: Some men believe light-skinned ladies are materialistic in nature.

A friend once told me he can’t date a light-skinned lady because he is not capable of taking care of her needs. Some get scared of approaching one for the fear of their pocket being drained.

The fact is, any lady could be materialistic irrespective of her skin complexion.

Lastly, many people believe being light-skinned gives one an edge in a place of work or gathering. There is a little atom of truth in this, but not in all situations.

What edge does a light-skinned female has when she is rude, arrogant and disrespectful? Edge has got to do with one personality, not complexion.

5 Amazing Things That Turn Girls ON Instantly, #1 Is A Secret To Know.

Men are simple. Take a beautiful face, a sexy body, a warm smile, and she’s already halfway towards being a man’s dream girl. With women, it’s difficult. You can be the most dashing gentleman on this side of the globe, but if there’s no spark, then it’s a no-go. There’s no rhyme or reason to what turns women on.

Women are complicated beings. It takes more than a beautiful body and an attractive face to turn us on. It can be a personal trait or a silly habit of yours that does it for us. It can be a facial feature, the way you put an outfit together, or some hobby of yours that makes us bat our lashes and flip our hair your way.

There are a number of sexual things that can turn women on. The way a guy’s trousers hug his butt, his washboard abs, or perhaps the way he kisses so passionately that we are left wanting after just a few seconds. However, there are a world of traits that makes her hot for you, and it doesn’t matter whether you’re hunky Johnny Bravo, or willowy Dr. Sheldon Cooper, or as socially awkward as Rajesh in The Big Bang Theory. If you have one of these traits, you will catch a woman’s eye… or heart.

#1 A foreign accent.

No one can resist a guy with a foreign accent, be it a French one, Scottish, or the good ol’ Southern drawl. Don’t believe me? Listen to Javier Bardem’s Spanish accent in Eat, Pray, Love or Hugh Grant’s English accent in Valentine’s Day, or perhaps Jason Statham’s cockney English in any of his British movies.

Still don’t believe me? Matthew McConaughey’s Texan drawl and Chris Hemsworth’s Aussie accent beg to differ.

10 Things Every Lady Must Have In Her Bag, Don’t Go Anywhere Without #9

A bag should be a woman’s best friend and it comes handy as a companion. It should hold down all of a woman’s secret. Some of the things you find in a woman’s bag can be a little embarrassing but very helpful.

The bag should contain items like wallet, mirror, pressed powder etc. Check out the top 10 things that should be found in a complete woman’s bag.

1. Hair Bands


Letting your hair down might at all times be some sort of discomfort especially if you are the sweaty type. Having hair pins in your bag can save you all the stress when everything gets heated up. When you feel the need to pull your hair back, then only would you see the need for the hairbands.

10 Creepy Guys Every Girl Will Encounter in Her Lifetime

What makes a guy creepy? It’s different for everyone; one girl’s creepy guy can be another girl’s dream. What’s clear is that there are a lot of different ‘types’ or creepy guy; they each do one particular thing to make us feel uncomfortable and they usually don’t stop no matter how many hints you give them. You’re going to have to learn how to deal with these types of guys because if you’re not prepared the experience can be even more uncomfortable!

That’s what makes a guy creepy; the fact that they don’t understand what they are doing is making you feel awkward. You might find a guy staring at you from a distance, which is fine as long as he stops once you’ve noticed; it’s when he continues to stare for 10 more minutes, that’s what makes him creepy. Read on and discover the bountiful, wonderful world of creepy men; you’ll have met some of them in the past and will no doubt meet more in the future.

#10 – Touchy Feely

When a guy you’ve just met starts becoming very touchy without your reciprocation, then he definitely qualifies as creepy. There is probably no feeling more awkward than when someone you don’t want touching you won’t stop touching you!

They’ll use any excuse to hug, grab, grope and touch you; their hands seem to sneak their way to places you weren’t expecting and you feel like you are being prodded and probed in some kind of experiment. Most touchy feely guys are completely harmless and are probably just being friendly, the creepy ones reveal themselves when they ignore the fact that they are making you uncomfortable. If you encounter a guy like this then don’t be shy, just move away from them; you should never be afraid to let a guy know that they are creeping you out!

The Best and Worse Ways to Propose to a Girl

If you’re thinking about finally proposing to the girl of your dreams, here’s a guide on how you should and shouldn’t do it.

So you’ve finally found what you believe to be that perfect partner: someone so awesome, you want to devote the rest of your life to her – if she’ll have you, of course. You’ve got the ring, you’ve got your speech, and now all you need is the perfect place.

Before you go rushing off to your romantic hotspot, keep in mind that the setting is one of the things she’ll remember forever, the tiny details she’ll be sharing with all of her friends and family as she tells the story over and over again – so consider it wisely! Will there be tourists taking selfies in the background of your marriage proposal? Will it rain? Will she be thrilled, or embarrassed?

Here’s some things to keep in mind when you’re thinking about your setting for popping the question.

Good places to pop the rock

Of course, along with the worst places, we simply must include a list of great places to ask her to marry you.

#1 The same place you went on your first date. Unless your first date was in a haunted hay ride, this is a safe bet for your proposal. This could easily be substituted for some other sentimental location shared between the two of you.

#2 On top of a tower. This is one of the most fail-safe places to propose. While you may not be big on the idea of proposing in public, there is something notoriously romantic about popping the question on top of a tower.

#3 In an air balloon. Again with the heights! An air balloon is cute, sweet, romantic, and fun. All aspects of a proposal that will have her saying. “Yes, yes, yes!” What could be better than the two of you, a bottle of champagne, a sparkling ring, and a fantastic view?

#4 On a treasure hunt. Using games to pop your question is a surefire way to make an unforgettable proposal. A man online uploaded his proposal to his girlfriend by hiring a camera crew, pretending she’d won admission to be on the Amazing Race television show, and creating various challenges, which she completed, leading her to fly to see the Northern Lights. Once under the aurora borealis, her boyfriend proposed and she said yes!

While we may not all be able to afford a camera crew just to make a proposal special, you can easily make a treasure or scavenger hunt as an outing for your girlfriend before you pop the big question.

#5 Think outside the box. Some guys have taken the ultimate plunge, literally, for their proposals that have made them truly unforgettable, such as while scuba diving, sky diving, using glow in the dark stars to write it on the bedroom ceiling, writing their proposal in the sand and more.

What to Talk About with a Girl You Like

Ever wondered what to talk about with a girl once you’re past the introduction? Here are a few perfect conversation makers you could definitely use.

The first five tips on how to talk to a girl in the introduction should help you strike a conversation with a girl and impress her too.

But that’s not it. To really impress a girl, you need to know what to talk about with a girl, and how to do it the right way.

What to talk about with a girl

While talking to a girl for the first time can be tricky, knowing what to talk about with a girl can be the deal maker or breaker.

Anyone can start a conversation using the tips in the introduction, but what next? That’s when you have to reveal your true colors and woo her with your own charm.

If you really want to make her like you on your very first conversation, use these tips on what to talk about with a girl.

#6 After the introduction. Starting a conversation is actually simpler than continuing the conversation.

After all, you don’t have a clue what she likes or doesn’t like. So this is where you have to play safe.

If you’re wondering what to talk about with her, then go with the obvious. If you’re having some difficulty coming up with conversation lines, use these six conversation starters to use with a girl.

You really don’t have to constantly bombard her with questions just to avoid any blank spaces in the conversation. Relax and feel comfortable. When you’re nervous, it shows. And that would only make her feel uneasy to be around you.

#7 Don’t put her in a spot. Sometimes it’s easy to get carried away in a conversation. Don’t do that.  The one thing you need to remember is to never put the girl in a spot. Don’t make her feel uncomfortable or nervous with your questions.

Don’t ask her stupid questions like “you were staring back at me too, right?” “You look good in this dress, where did you pick it up?” and a lot more along those lines. They’re awkward and really dumb. Avoid looking down her shirt or staring at her below her neck. Indulging in any of these activities will only make her feel uncomfortable and awkward. And when that happens, she’d only want to walk away from you.

#8 Be warm and likeable. A lot of guys get very excited when a girl reciprocates their moves and starts a conversation with them. Just because a girl wants to talk back to you doesn’t mean she’s easy to get. You still have to respect her and treat her like a lady. Have a conversation with her just like you would with a girl you were introduced to. Don’t smart talk or talk dirty. Well, unless she wants to!

#9 Smile often and flirt. If you really want to know what to talk about with a girl, remember the one thing that matters more than anything else. Her comfort. As long as she’s comfortable and happy, she’d be happy to talk to you and spend time with you. So more than the words you choose, focus on how you can make her feel comfortable around you.

One of the best ways to ease a girl and make her want to be with you is through humor. You really don’t have to learn a few one-liners and jokes for this. You just need to be a happy guy. A guy who smiles and has a great laugh makes for great company.

#10 Don’t talk forever. In most cases, you’d meet a great girl at a meeting or a conference, or at other times in a café or a club. Unless both of you are specifically meeting up for a date, don’t try to hog the girl for the entire evening. Remember, she has her own obligations and commitments.

If you’re just going to talk on and on, there’s a good chance she’ll get quite annoyed with you and would just want to shut you up. One of the best ways to avoid this is to ask her if she has to go somewhere, and flatter her at the same time. Saying something like “I’d really love to stay here and talk with you for a while. Would that be alright with you?” Try it, you’ll see the difference.

Even if she has to go somewhere else, this line will definitely lead to more phone conversations and sweet dates!

Now that you know what to talk about with a girl and how to continue a great conversation with her, remember these tips when you come across a beauty that catches your eye.  After all, great conversations aren’t just about words!